How easy is it for you to plunge into negativity?
The lure of
negativity for me? It's cake. Multiple layers of decadent cake slathered
with creamy frosting and various assorted mouthwatering fillings. And
When I begin complaining, counting flaws, finding
fault, gritching, blaming, it becomes a crushing snowball in my life.
And when I enter a location with others who are out of sorts, it's not
long before I join them and built my ice fortress of ugliness.
Even though we are one week into the new year and I have yet to make
official resolutions, I'm setting aside thirty days to make a change in
the way I look at life. If I force myself to stop the cycle of
negativity I won't catch the frozen snowballs of yuck that others throw
my direction. Right?
So join me.
I'm going to call it
QuitCHIR. Quit Complaining, Harumping, Imploding, Raging. Start seeing
the blessings in life, the good in others and the beauty around us.
Because all of those three huge things exist. They just get buried in
attitude, outlook and gloomy clouds of doom.
My suggestion, and
feel free to expand on this idea, is to replace the focus on the stormy
clouds with looking for the silver linings.
your negative thoughts. Are there situations and/or people that tend to
multiply them? If you are very brave write them down.
Come back tomorrow for Day Two. A very positive step, indeed.
Change. I've learned to embrace it, ride it out til the end. Sometimes I'm kicking and screaming, other times weeping with my eyes clinched tight. Once in awhile I ride like a dog in a car, head out the window snorting what life has to offer. Mother to young adult children, a marriage of thirty years, and a desert to mountain to valley waltz with God have shaped me into someone I never imagined I'd be. Life is short and I want to live it. Tears, sighs, laughter and change. Every morsel granted to me. Scrambled, shaken or stirred.