Life survived or tolerated or wished away while waiting for big events isn't really living life at all. It's a life put on hold, a life in limbo, a life lived skinny and shallow. My "burdens," my "calling," my "passions" shouldn't be identical to anyone else's. Because God prepared for me, before the foundation of the world, works for me to walk in. He gifted me uniquely with a one-of-a-kind way of looking at the world, one-of-a-kind set of fingerprints and a one-of-a -kind recipe of spiritual gifts, quirks, talents and locks that can be opened by my obedience to His workings in my life.
