Tuesday, August 20, 2013

Scribbles and Scrambles ~ Twist and Stretch...

Oh, we are such complicated creatures aren't we? 

By that I mean that we are often blind to, and if not blind, in denial of, the lies that pin us into place on the wrestling mat of life. 

Whether we tell ourselves the simple, white, "lie" that tomorrow we'll make different choices, or we hunker down into the belief that we are unworthy, or that the world is against us or owes us, we end up becoming our own worst enemies. And we spin and we circle and we spiral and expend tremendous energy and we don't move forward. 

I, for one, get so tired of the negative beliefs that circulate through my mind. I feel like I go two steps forward and one back far too often. That's progress, right? But then I take one step forward and three back. 

This year has been a challenging one on so many levels. Music, starting a business, putting myself out there in both of these. Other issues like empty nesting and relearning being just a couple again and a different kind of a family. Job changes that feel very much like roller coasters doing loopy loops and the future promises more. We are in fields that are very much affected by politics and society...healthcare and education. 

I need to stop spinning.  I need to start walking toward, planning for and following through with the things that are important to me. Circumstances need to become scenery by the roadside NOT the path I walk. 

Monday, August 19, 2013

Serials and Scenarios ~ Avoiding the Fellas in White Jackets ~ Michelle Griep

I saw this on Facebook yesterday and it reminded me of Michelle's A Heart Deceived. And that reminded me that she has some more interesting factoids about life back in the day. 

Read the link, read Michelle's article, buy A Heart Deceived and be very thankful you just have to read about it, not live it. 




 

Avoiding the Fellas in White Jackets

My mother took me to a pediatrician when I was five because I spent an excessive amount of time beneath the dining room table talking to my best buddy…Daniel Boone. Yeah, I know. He’s dead. I knew it at the time as well, but that didn’t stop me from having heart-to-hearts with him. In my mind, he was as real as the old cat lady who lived next door, only he didn’t smell as funky.

The doctor vindicated me by telling my mom there was nothing to worry about. I simply had a bad case of a vivid imagination. I don’t dare tell her (or the good doctor) that my gray matter now devises horrific murder scenes in cinemagraphic color—and that I actually make money doing it.

All this to say that writers are a quirky lot. They have to be, or they won’t get paid, which is really interesting because a few hundred years ago, the same twitchy behavior might’ve landed one in the loony bin. It didn’t take much...

Attitude

Husbands committed wives for being “melancholy”. Translation: the fella took a fancy to the hot babe down the lane and wanted to ditch his wife.

Physical Glitch

Yo, mom and dad…got too many mouths to feed and one of them has a slight deformation? Maybe a cleft palate, perhaps? No worries. Pack that kid off to the asylum and voila; one less plate to serve at dinnertime.

Revenge

If someone higher up the food chain has an issue with you, watch your back, buddy. Dueling is against the law, but getting you committed sure isn’t. All it takes is a lie or two whispered into the right ears and you’ll be packing your bags for Bedlam.

Traitorous Tendencies

One of the most famous nutjobs in Bethlehem Royal Hospital was James Tilly Matthews, who was little more than a verbal threat to the crown. Well, to be fair, there was the rumor that he was a double agent, and he did think there was a conspiracy to place bad thoughts into his head by use of an “airloom”, but other than that, he was relatively harmless…unless you happened to be one of the politicians he spoke against and were worried he might froth up the rabble against you.

Getting packed off to a late eighteenth century asylum was about as much fun as stint in a Poorhouse. Many were understaffed, over populated, and the mental health industry itself was in need of reformation—which would and did come, but not in time to help out the heroine in my latest release, A HEART DECEIVED.

Miri Brayden teeters on a razor's edge between placating and enraging her brother, whom she depends upon for support. Yet if his anger is unleashed, so is his madness. Miri must keep his descent into lunacy a secret, or he'll be committed to an asylum—and she'll be sent to the poorhouse. 

Ethan Goodwin has been on the run all of his life—from family, from the law ... from God. After a heart-changing encounter with the gritty Reverend John Newton, Ethan would like nothing more than to become a man of integrity—an impossible feat for an opium addict charged with murder. 

When Ethan shows up on Miri's doorstep, her balancing act falls to pieces. Both Ethan and Miri are caught in a web of lies and deceit—fallacies that land Ethan in prison and Miri in the asylum with her brother. Only the truth will set them free.


Today, writers, daydreamers and silly hearts don’t need to be as fearful about the men in white jackets coming to haul them away. Still, it wouldn’t hurt if you kept all your talk about airlooms to yourself.


A HEART DECEIVED is available by David C. Cook and at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and ChristianBook.

Keep up with the exploits of Michelle Griep at Writer Off the Leash, Facebook, Twitter, and Pinterest.

Friday, August 16, 2013

Scribbles and Scrambles ~ Sneakish Peek and Destressed For Now....

Another teaser for a recipe, coming soon to this blog in September. It's gotta post elsewhere first, and frankly, since I stinking procrastinated to the day of the deadline for this recipe, I'm a wee bit too tired to post it here, too. 

Why did I procrastinate? Good question. Stuff like that totally stresses me out, but clearly, not so much that I act in a more timely manner. 

The craziest part of this procrastination thing is that this recipe share is writing I get paid for. 1500 words which includes recipes and pictures and suggestions. I cracked out one of my recipes last week and read the book so I could review it and come up with food suggestions to tie into a book club meeting. Sheesh. Feeling tired thinking about it. Ha.Ha. But. These little cupcakes are worth waiting for.  

Thursday, August 15, 2013

Scribbles and Scrambles ~ Get It? Or Not?

A few truths for Thursday perusal.

Not everyone is going to agree with you, get you, or even like you.

And that's okay. Because, if you are honest, you don't get, agree with or like everyone in your life.

However, if you don't focus all your energy on trying to please, chase, explain yourself to, manipulate, and win over those who won't or can't get, agree with or like you, you might find the beauty of surrounding yourself with those who do.

And those who don't or can't can be amazing sources of challenge, growth and sandpaper in your life.

Sandpaper is exfoliating, removing dead "skin",  imperfections and blemishes from your character. 

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

Scribbles and Scrambles ~ Feline Funnies

I haven't visited the Engineers YouTube page lately. Here are a few fun dramatic reenactments and a little Christmas cheer in August.  I love these guys! 



Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Scraps and Snippets ~ Coming Soon....


So. I have been debating whether or not to participate in Vegan MoFo this year. Last year, the 20 desserts, nearly killed us all. Ha. Ha. It was tough to eat all those goodies. 

This year September brings Vegan Month of Food and I sought some suggestions on Facebook. 

From 20 appetizers, restaurant faves,  to all about Vegan proteins, to casserole makeovers, I've found a theme that will touch on all of these. 

I'm taking on the challenge of making over some comfort foods, including appetizers, casseroles, and with plenty of protein rich options. I'll use classic cookbooks, recipe websites and even some of the big food manufacturers recipe ideas and I'll kind em up and make them tasty. 

So coming to a blog near you this September - - Americana Vegan, the things we love to eat made over with love. 

Two trials that will be appearing soon. And they were keepers. 

Monday, August 12, 2013

Scribbles and Scrambles ~ Want to Be Interesting?

How to be Interesting. 
http://how2beinteresting.tumblr.com

Someone tagged me on Facebook about this book. 

At first I was a bit concerned...was this person singling me out as someone who needs lessons on how to be less annoying and more interesting? 

Oh my!

But then I decided that he already considered that some of what I was doing was covered in the book, and that I might enjoy what else was inside. (Aren't optimists more interesting, right? And proof that I try to live in the overlapping bubbles above...even if it was meant as a "get a clue, Lady." moment.)

Here's a link to the article that went viral and resulted in the book. I borrowed the picture above from the book blog

On a related note. Our sermon on Sunday included a comment that made me pause. I think it ties into the discussion of what makes a person interesting. My pastor went to a leadership conference last week. One of the speakers was a psychologist who broke down human needs into the following categories.

The need to be loved
The need to belong
The need to chose to be brave

We are designed to want to live our lives, not use them up as spectators, or in bitter regret. Fascinating er interesting.